Official Job Crafting Not Useful as Reclaiming Your Soul?

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Why Job Crafting Looks Good—But It Still Feels Wrong

There was a time when I believed all I needed was a little more responsibility, more creativity, and more recognition.

So I asked for it. I crafted, I adjusted, I made my work “meaningful.”

But something still felt off.

It was like lighting a candle in a windowless room.

Sure, it flickered with hope, but the air was stale. The walls unmoved, and the ceiling still far too low.

I began to realize I hadn’t found purpose. I’d just polished the cage.

And I’m not the only one.

The New Trend: Job Crafting as a Band-Aid

A woman places a decorative bandage over a deep crack in a concrete wall—symbolizing how job crafting can mask deeper misalignment rather than resolve it. — Image created by author using Artistly app.

“Job crafting” is gaining momentum.

A Harvard Business Review article from 2021 called it “a way to reshape your role without leaving your job.”

Many companies now encourage employees to tweak their roles to better align with personal interests, motivations, or strengths. Sounds empowering, right?

On paper, yes.

In practice? It can become a clever way to keep you quietly coping with a role you’ve outgrown.

There’s a hidden danger here, especially for soul-rich women in midlife.

We’ve been taught to make things work. To adapt and hold it together.

So we think: “Maybe I just need to reframe my tasks.”

“Maybe I’m the problem if I’m still unfulfilled.”

But the truth is: you can’t find freedom inside a framework that was never built with your spirit in mind.

My Awakening Standing at My Office Window

A woman stands quietly by a large office window, her gaze lost in the trees outside, hand resting on the glass—remembering who she was before she began to shrink to fit her role. — Image created by author using Artistly app.

I remember standing by the window in my office one day, staring out at the trees.

I used to call it “the nature therapy.”

It was a time where I felt a sense of life.

I’d take deep breaths there. Not to refresh, but to remember.

That I had once dreamed bigger.

That I used to feel free.

I had crafted my job into something palatable.

But it still wasn’t mine. It wasn’t aligned with who I was becoming.

That moment by the window became a turning point.

Not because I crafted my tasks more cleverly.

But because I finally asked myself:
What if the problem isn’t my job description? What if the problem is the cage?

You Weren’t Born to Be an Asset

A barefoot woman in a sterile office stands holding a green plant, looking out a sunlit window—symbolizing her longing to break free from conformity and create her own sacred space.

The modern workplace still prizes performance over presence.

Productivity over purpose.

You are praised for being flexible, dependable, manageable.

But you weren’t born to be an asset. You were born to be alive.

If your work doesn’t make room for your evolution.

Funny thing is that it’s not sacred—it’s a substitute.

And even the best-tweaked roles can become spiritual sedatives if they keep you stuck. So, let me ask:
Have you been rearranging the furniture in someone else’s house, when your soul is asking you to build your own?

Realignment Is Risky—and Worth It

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Here’s what job crafting doesn’t tell you:
Sometimes, you’re not meant to make your job more meaningful.

Maybe, you’re meant to leave it behind entirely.

That doesn’t mean quitting tomorrow or throwing it all away recklessly.

It means beginning the deeper work of asking what your soul actually needs.

Of exploring what alignment really looks like.

What lights you up, even in silence?
What have you been tolerating because you think you should?
What do you long for that no performance review will ever validate?

There’s risk in asking those questions.

But there’s also power.

You don’t need a perfect plan.

You need a starting point and the courage to move.

Even small shifts like writing that idea down, or reaching out to someone doing what you love.

Maybe listening to your ache can open a door.

The Tree Doesn’t Ask to Be Reshaped—It Grows Anyway

A woman at a fork in the road chooses between a concrete city path and a quiet, forest trail—symbolizing a return to soul-led choices. — Image created by author using Artistly app.

I often return to nature when I’m stuck.

Trees don’t try to fit in. They don’t shrink to stay rooted in depleted soil.

Trees stretch and they lean toward light.

They even crack the pavement if they must.

Your growth may shake the structure. That’s okay.

Job crafting can be a lovely first step.

But don’t confuse it for the destination.

Your true work isn’t about rearranging your role, it’s about reclaiming your essence.

A Gentle Nudge, A Final Thought

A woman walks barefoot through a field at sunset, leaving her office shoes behind, symbolizing her freedom from structured definitions of purpose. — Image created by author using Artistly app.

If you’ve been trying to find meaning by tweaking, modifying, performing—pause.

Step outside. Breathe in the air that no one bills you for.

Ask your deeper self what she needs, not just what she can tolerate.

Because purpose?

It doesn’t need to be assigned.

What it needs is to be answered.

And your soul, she’s not looking to be managed. She’s waiting to be met.

Thank you for reading.

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